Monday, March 29, 2010

"A Place for Everything..."

"...and Everything in its Place."

I used to hear those words uttered frequently by my grandmother. Her home was always neat and tidy, and, like the saying says, everything had its place. As a child I brushed it off, I'm not a very organized person by nature. Yesterday, however, my grandma's old saying hit me right in the face.



I had sat down at the computer to nurse M, and check the status of an order I had placed. I heard a firetruck's horn honk. It was loud, but since we're near a main street, I figured it was just passing by. I then looked to the window, and saw a man I had never seen before standing outside of our yard. He had a look of pure fascination and awe on his face. I knew something was up, so I ran upstairs to Cecy's (mother in law's) house and went outside (I can't see anything from our windows). When I went outside, the entire neighborhood was outside, along with four firetrucks, complete with hoses and the ladder. I dashed to the backyard, to see the neighbor's house engulfed in flames. I ran back inside to get the kids dressed (it's cold out) and ready in case the fire were to spread and we needed to leave. I had initially thought that the fire was closer because of the large amount of smoke and fire that I saw. It was four houses south of ours. Here in Chicago, our houses are 3 feet apart, so things can get out of hand. The wind was in our favor and our house was spared. The house south of the house that caught fire also caught a little fire, but it wasn't bad. In the end, a family of 6, including 4 children lost their home. I am so deeply sorry for them, but at least no one was hurt.

But back to my revelation. When I was trying to get the kids ready, I suddenly could not.find.anything. I couldn't find M's snowsuit, hat, or N's shoes. What if there were a true emergency? I'd like to have a blanket or something ready to grab in a split second in an emergency. But nope, couldn't find it. What an eye opener.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Why I Don't Keep the House Tidy

It is no secret, especially if you've been a guest in my home. It is rarely tidy- and when it is, you've caught it at a 1 in a million chance and if you blink your eyes it will be untidy again. Seriously.

This is something that really irks my husband, and I feel bad. He works all day and our house is a disaster when he comes home. Don't get me wrong, the mess makes me nuts too! So, I've been thinking, and in trying to grow, I've formulated my list of previous reasons for not keeping the house tidy.

1. I had a major headache. Yeah, this happens quite often.
Solution: Keep my blood sugar up.

2. The baby was hanging off of my breast all day, and I couldn't.
Solution: Sling her.

3. N was flipping and bouncing off the walls all day.
Solution: Have her help me.

4. I couldn't do the dishes that have been piling up because I can't leave the kids alone.
Solution: Take M in her swing into the bathroom with me to wash dishes. Yes, we wash dishes in the bathroom.

5. But it's so hard to wash dishes in the bathroom!!!
Solution: Deal with it.

6. We don't have a place for anything, there's too much stuff...
Toss the un-needed, unwanted, and unuseful or donate it. Find a place for the important stuff.

And my mom's life long rule that I never seemed to follow? "When you get done with something, PUT IT AWAY before you get something else out!".

I think that's the golden rule.

Off to clean the casa.

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Fun at the Chicago Children's Museum

Today we took the trip out to the Chicago Children's Museum. N had a blast!



She loved the purple raincoat that the CCM supplied!








Lake Michigan was especially choppy today!



On a side note, I purchased a beautiful Ergo carrier today!

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Close to my Heart

Wearing my children has been one of the best things I've ever done. I wanted to pop in and share some photos.


M in her Moby Wrap, close to mama.


This was taken at a birthday party last Sunday. Hubby, his mother, and me, wearing M in her Mei Tai. (Yes, I know the strap is a little too close to my neck. Hubby tied it too tightly! Whoops!). And look at all of her hair!


N & I, last July. She loved riding in her sling.


N & I, in October, showing off in our Moby Wrap.


I haven't worn N in a really long time, and I'm very thankful that she's not jealous of her sister. Anyways, wanted to share that :)

Saturday, March 20, 2010

It's been awhile!

I haven't blogged in probably 2 weeks! I've been slacking. Here's an update of what's been happenin' in our household.

Daddy & I installed our new kitchen table. It's awesome- honestly, we love it. It's a wooden black tabletop with a stainless steel pole leg, and brackets affixing it to the wall. It's bar-height, so we have tall chairs to go along with it. It really saves a ton of space. N sits in her high chair which is pretty tall, so she isn't left out of mealtime.

We went grocery shopping today. I've been making more of an effort to cook home cooked meals and get her off of the artificial colors, flavors, etc, and high fructose corn syrup. She did have a bit in ketchup today though...ergh.

Also, we have completely weaned her off of juice!! She is now a big fan of water, which she wouldn't touch before.

I've been working on a new knitting project- a wooly sleepy sack for M. I casted on about 20" worth of stiching (height), and am going to have to knit on probably another 20 more (maybe less) for the width. I've only got about 2" done though... so I've got alot to work on!

I'm also still reading "You are Your Child's First Teacher" so I've got alot on my plate.

M is going to be 3 months old on Monday and she's doing great!

Monday, March 8, 2010

Goodness...

I'm seriously never eating fast food again.

I decided to eat Wendy's today- and holy freaking moly do I regret it. I just feel generally icky and my tummy hurts. Gross, gross, gross.

Making changes for the better is great- but I did not need that fast food relapse!

Sunday, March 7, 2010

Following our dreams, not our pocketbooks.

I think that's going to become my blog's subtitle/description.

Right off the bat, I will say that I'm very proud to be a mom. I am proud and very happy staying with my children all day. I feel that I am giving them the best. I have no current intention of going back to work or going back to school, unless dire circumstances call for it. I have full intention to homeschool my children.
Numerous people as me when I'm planning on going back to school, back to work, etc. It is as if it is completely impossible to live a life if I am not formally educated. I don't choose to follow my pocketbook- my choice in life is to be with my children. To raise them and give them a wholesome education- not just in a schooling aspect- I mean all around. I know that this is something I need to work on, and also something that is not terribly easy considering our given circumstances, but I'd like to be a bit more self-sustaining. Whatever happened to the wife who had a garden and raised yummy fruits, veggies, and flowers to eat? The momma who baked bread? Who made many of the family's clothes? I don't mind being that "traditional housewife", I find it to be more pleasing than being disconnected from my children and only home in chunks of time and away again. I think feminism in itself lead to the demise of women.. and therefore led to the demise of our children. I think the feminist movement was a huge contribution to "bad parents". Women wanted to go out and do what men did. No issues with that, I'm all for equallity... but then who was to raise the children? In most cases, roles arent reversed. Many familys have both parents working outside the home. Rarely is there a stay at home father. With no one with the kids, they are dumped at daycare, babysitters, school (I know homeschooling is not for everyone, but school shouldn't be a babysitter), or worst of all, left alone for a large part of the day. Children just aren't well rounded anymore.
But then, you ask, "What about money"? Simple. We don't need all of that money. I would much rather raise a wholesome family than dwell on whether or not I have the coolest gadget. Groceries? Clothes? Bringing back the self-sustaining point... self explanitory.

Anyways, I had to share that.

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Minimal Clothing Challenge (and other updates)

First off, I'd like to apologize for neglecting my blog. I've been battling a cold for the past two days, and M has been sick with a cough since Monday morning. Not sure what did it, but it sure wasn't pleasant!

I'm happy to report that both onions are growing nicely (they're huge!) and that I also added a nice garlic plant to the mix. It sprouted 2 days after I had put it in water by the windowsill. It is now about 6 inches tall and has a few more sprous coming up :)

I am also pleased to mention that N will be starting gymnastics at a new park at the end of the month. This park has a gymnastics center and we love it. Hubby's sister went there pre-highschool, and I went there when I was younger (though my mom pulled me out and put me in a new park because I was intimidated!). Hopefully she enjoys it.. the gymnastics she had at the other park was a bit boring and the teacher was horribly unfit to teach children :( N is also going to start a new playgroup at a new park :) It runs two days a week and should be fun, I hope. I do have to walk there... a LONG way! 27 city blocks!!!

ANYWHO. I'm going to have hubby help me thin out our clothing today. For me, I'm planning on keeping:

3 Jeans
3 Denim Capris (Spring is coming!)
2 Sleep Shirts (Both White Sox Tees)
3 Sweat/Jogging Pants
3 Sleep Shorts
3 Nursing Tanks
4 Nursing Bras
x Long Sleeve Shirts
x Short Sleeve Shirts
3 Sweat Shirts
2 Jackets for going out
(Above marked with "x" because I need to see them.. lol)
I'd like it to be even more minimal than that, but with children, that's not all that plausible!

And for M:
7 Lap Tees
7 Pairs of cotton pants
2 Pairs of Wool Longies (Pants)
2 Cotton Knit Sweaters
2 One Piece Sleepers
1 Snow Suit for outings
2 cotton dresses (one is for easter, one is for occasions)

For N:
5 Pairs of Jeans
5 Cotton Play pants
5 Short sleeve shirts/onesies
5 Long sleeve shirts/onesies
2 Hooded zip sweat shirts
2 Jackets/Coats
2 dresses, one for easter, one for occasions)

I'm sure I left things out (socks, for one). I'll figure that out as I go along. I also need to figure out what I'm going to do with my trillion receiving blankets. M's favorites have been the ones that they give you in the hospital (which, I know, you aren't supposed to take. Tell my husband otherwise..!)

Hubby is on his own, clothing-wise! :)